ray's theory of relationships.
more often than not, my friends (99.9% female) turn to me when they have problems in relationships. i dunno why, but i think im a much better 3rd party advisor than a participant so to speak.
after countless sessions all these years, i somehow put together this theory of relationships that i have. it just struck me one day when i was lazing on my lovely bed for the whole day.. juz thinking.. and thinking.. and imagining my love beside me.. her silky smooth back with a lovely fragrance....
i reckon.. every relationship.. regardless of a happy or sad one... has to be gone through. many a times, i hav friends telling me that they do not dare to go into one for fear of pain and angony. well.. i just tell them u never know unless u give it a try. even if it doesn't work out, it will be a lesson learnt to prepare u for the one.
every relationship is juz a step that brings u closer to the one. it trains and equips u with the necessary skills to maintain a relationship. some may hit the one on the first step. some may still be climbing after countless steps. but the point is, the number of steps u have to take is predestined. so every step has to be taken inevitably. there's no running away from anything.
the weather is really making me so dreamy.. im dreaming of my wedding again. we shall exchange our wedding vows on a yacht. within the best of my abilities.. i will write a song and sing it to her on our wedding day.. and for our honeymoon.. packaged holidays are out.. we'll just find a nice quiet corner somewhere on the globe.. and live in a romantic place (im thinking france) for a month. just the 2 of us.. no stress.. no time table.. no tasks.. no work.. just.. love.
alright, back to madness packing for freezing yunnan. i will be taking the tues 8am flight and will not bring my hp. will be uncontactable for a looooonnnggg 17 days. And once i return.. have a full day wedding to attend.. *pant*
i won't be sms-ing everyone b4 i fly cuz it'll be a crazy waste of sms.. of if by chance u read this.. u're the lucky few who will get my msg: "Take care peepz! I'm sure I will miss u all real bad over there. But thinking of y'all gonna at least give me some warmth. Love u and I'll be back ;)"
after countless sessions all these years, i somehow put together this theory of relationships that i have. it just struck me one day when i was lazing on my lovely bed for the whole day.. juz thinking.. and thinking.. and imagining my love beside me.. her silky smooth back with a lovely fragrance....
i reckon.. every relationship.. regardless of a happy or sad one... has to be gone through. many a times, i hav friends telling me that they do not dare to go into one for fear of pain and angony. well.. i just tell them u never know unless u give it a try. even if it doesn't work out, it will be a lesson learnt to prepare u for the one.
every relationship is juz a step that brings u closer to the one. it trains and equips u with the necessary skills to maintain a relationship. some may hit the one on the first step. some may still be climbing after countless steps. but the point is, the number of steps u have to take is predestined. so every step has to be taken inevitably. there's no running away from anything.
the weather is really making me so dreamy.. im dreaming of my wedding again. we shall exchange our wedding vows on a yacht. within the best of my abilities.. i will write a song and sing it to her on our wedding day.. and for our honeymoon.. packaged holidays are out.. we'll just find a nice quiet corner somewhere on the globe.. and live in a romantic place (im thinking france) for a month. just the 2 of us.. no stress.. no time table.. no tasks.. no work.. just.. love.
alright, back to madness packing for freezing yunnan. i will be taking the tues 8am flight and will not bring my hp. will be uncontactable for a looooonnnggg 17 days. And once i return.. have a full day wedding to attend.. *pant*
i won't be sms-ing everyone b4 i fly cuz it'll be a crazy waste of sms.. of if by chance u read this.. u're the lucky few who will get my msg: "Take care peepz! I'm sure I will miss u all real bad over there. But thinking of y'all gonna at least give me some warmth. Love u and I'll be back ;)"
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